Me? I plan to do it the old fashion way. Eating less and sweating it off. The gym and I think eating only 80% of your food. Stop at 80% no matter what is on your plate and no eating after 8pm. Everything after that turns to fat. I will be much slimmer by summer and I want to feel in much better health. I am finally on the right track!
Before it becomes a butterfly, a caterpillar goes through a growth stage during which it is called a "chrysalis." On the surface it may not look like much is happening, but the delicate chrysalis process changes the fuzzy caterpillar into an awesome butterfly with wings of intricate designs and intense colors. I will chronical my transformation and exodus from my chrysalis into a beautiful butterfly...back into the butterfly I used to be.
Sunday, February 17, 2013
Watching the Food
Me? I plan to do it the old fashion way. Eating less and sweating it off. The gym and I think eating only 80% of your food. Stop at 80% no matter what is on your plate and no eating after 8pm. Everything after that turns to fat. I will be much slimmer by summer and I want to feel in much better health. I am finally on the right track!
Saturday, February 16, 2013
It is REALLY Happening!
Granted it did have a catalyst. About a month or so ago I was sick with a bad cold and I had to do to the doctor. He did all the normal things, weigh, blood pressure, temperature. We discovered for the very first time that my blood pressure was a little high. He has since put me on some medication and that has reduced it. So with that of course he suggested I lose weight. That something I already knew but it all struck a note that had not been struck before.
I am back on the gym trail. In my 20's and 30's I was a gym rat. I lived at the gym, was a size 8 and was in perfect shape, not an ounce of fat. I will return there. Or as close as I can get. I am looking forward to wearing some of the clothes that I could never part with. I kept them...all my small clothes. I knew I would be returning there...so here I am. Finally on the track were I want to go.
The Lenten season is upon us and I have even incorporated that into it. No more sweet snacks at my desk at work during the day. That was not helping. So I am staying away from that.
At the gym, I think I will stick with the walking for a while but I would like to advance eventually to the elliptical machines. Time. It takes time. It did not gain all this weight in a day and it will not go away in a day either. The bad thing is that it goes on quicker than it goes off. Time will make all the difference!
Monday, January 07, 2013
My Resolutions
- I vow to be more active and include walking or some for of exercise 3 times a week.
- I vow to watch less tv. Giving up several hours a week will allow me to learn french..something I want to do before I go to Europe this fall.
- I vow to listen to music more. I have been glued to the tv this past year and I have been missing hearing the strains of some of my favorite music.
- I vow to write more. I hardly blogged t all in 2012. There was not enough time. This year I am making the time.
- I vow to spent more time on me....focusing on me... because I tend to be more focused on others.
My Butterfly
And the daft sun-assaulter, he
That frighted thee so oft, is fled or dead:
Save only me
(Nor is it sad to thee!)
Save only me
There is none left to mourn thee in the fields.
The gray grass is not dappled with the snow;
Its two banks have not shut upon the river;
But it is long ago--
It seems forever--
Since first I saw thee glance,
With all the dazzling other ones,
In airy dalliance,
Precipitate in love,
Tossed, tangled, whirled and whirled above,
Like a limp rose-wreath in a fairy dance.
When that was, the soft mist
Of my regret hung not on all the land,
And I was glad for thee,
And glad for me, I wist.
Thou didst not know, who tottered, wandering on high,
That fate had made thee for the pleasure of the wind,
With those great careless wings,
Nor yet did I.
And there were other things:
It seemed God let thee flutter from his gentle clasp:
Then fearful he had let thee win
Too far beyond him to be gathered in,
Snatched thee, o'er eager, with ungentle grasp.
Ah! I remember me
How once conspiracy was rife
Against my life--
The languor of it and the dreaming fond;
Surging, the grasses dizzied me of thought,
The breeze three odors brought,
And a gem-flower waved in a wand!
Then when I was distraught
And could not speak,
Sidelong, full on my cheek,
What should that reckless zephyr fling
But the wild touch of thy dye-dusty wing!
I found that wing broken to-day!
For thou are dead, I said,
And the strange birds say.
I found it with the withered leaves
Under the eaves.
Here We Go Again!
So this January I will begin again. I have some of my coworkers for inspiration. They are all hitting the gym of talking about diets. I even have a few marathon runners who sit near me in my office, so I would love to somehow with my bad knees run again. We shall see. I think the first thing is to just begin to walk. Even that is a strain now as I have been so sedentary for this past year. But that will be changing.
As I sit hear typing this at Starbucks, I know visits here will need to be curtailed. You just don't know how much I love the casualness of a coffee shop for coffee and a scone. the scones. I am having a raspberry orange scone now. I know that eating will also need to be something I need to review. Every bite needs to be scrutinized and monitored.
I want this to be a year of change and it has to begin with me.
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Today's Food
Not bad. This evening I had a wedding to attend so there I ate the most food of the day. That should be reversed to help me. The biggest meal of the day should be eaten early in the day. Well, the food was good. Starters consisted of asparagus, cheeses, spinach dip and smoked salmon on crackers. Yum! I did have two cups of sangria..not good. But it was a wedding. The main course was corned beef, crab cakes, green beans, mashed sweet potatoes and lots of tea.
Next week I will be starting to juice and that will be the meal. I have got to make a food change. We are what we eat. I am all ready for beet, carrot and apple juice to replace a meal.
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Naked Soon?
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Diet Gone Wrong or ALtered
Cabbage Soup Diet
6 large green onions
2 green peppers
1 or 2 cans of tomatoes (diced or whole)
3 Carrots
1 Container (10 oz. or so) Mushrooms
1 bunch of celery
half a head of cabbage
1 package Lipton soup mix
1 or 2 cubes of bouillon (optional)
1 48oz can V8 juice (optional)
Season to taste with salt, pepper, parsley, curry, garlic powder, etc.
Directions:
Slice green onions, put in a pot and start to saute with cooking spray.
Cut green pepper stem end off and cut in half, take the seeds and membrane out. Cut the green-pepper into bite size pieces and add to pot.
Take the outer leafs layers off the cabbage, cut into bite size pieces, add to pot.
Clean carrots, cut into bite size pieces, and add to pot.
Slice mushrooms into thick slices, add to pot.
If you would like a spicy soup, add a small amount of curry or cayenne pepper now.
You can use beef or chicken bouillon cubes for seasonings. These have all the salt and flavors you will need.
Use about 12 cups of water (or 8 cups and the V8 juice), cover and put heat on low. Let soup cook for a long time - two hours works well. Season to taste with salt and pepper.
Monday, April 07, 2008
The Fat Medusa
Well, for the past 6 months I have been trying to get her to eat better. Not to eat so much fried, greasy foods. She has resisted most things I have brought in for her to eat. I have been bringing enough salads and fruits for 2 and offering things to her. She turns her nose up at most. I have even encouraged her to walk. Nothing on her end. I have talked to her about low carb eating. She did do that for about 2 days. She is not ready to make any sort of change in her lifestyle right now, so I think I will give up trying. I will put the focus on me. Maybe if she sees me consistently loosing, she may take an interest in herself.
Her eating habits are deplorable. She eats too fast and puts way too much in her mouth. It is gross to eat around her. Then after eating she spends most of the afternoon burping and belching very loudly. I thank God I do not have to share an office with her. As soon as any kind of food smell eminates from the breakroom, she is literally running from her cubby to see what kind of food someone else has. Then she begs for it. Only the unhealthy things. A vegetable will kill her!
I realize that you cannot get others to diet or make changes unless they want to. You can only encourage but if they do not want to do it, they will not.
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Monday, March 10, 2008
Going Strong
It is odd. Inside I feel very small in size. The mirror shows differently. I guess that is a good thing, unlike the small people who mentally think they are big and end up with eating disorders. I just have to get active and get more sleep. At times I know I am sleep deprived and am just too tired to work out. Sleep is what I need the most. I plan to get more of that as well. Without proper rest you will not loose weight either.
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Fat Cell Anatomy

- 20% emotional baggage (stress, depression, boredom, etc.)
- 20% past parental programming (i.e. clean your plate, cookies fix all boo boos, etc.)
- 20% love of food
- 10% slug syndrome and couch potatoitis
- 10% bad habits
- 10% chocolate addiction (women) or beer addiction (men), (note: substitute favorite food addiction(s) for either)
- 10% water
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
Monday, October 01, 2007
Itch Not Scratched
Nothing sweet. Then I decided to have juice. Orange juice. Orange juice is sweet. So I poured a nice big glass and added a large tablespoon of wheat grass to it! Orange turned to green. Wheat grass. Yum! Well, the urge for sweet has gone away and the wheat grass will make me feel like I did something healthy. Well, I did. Urge to go astray on the diet averted! This time!
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Sunday, September 30, 2007
Artichokes
How to Cook an Artichoke
1. If the artichokes have little thorns on the end of the leaves, take a kitchen scissors and cut of the thorned tips of all of the leaves. This step is mostly for aesthetics as the thorns soften with cooking and pose no threat to the person eating the artichoke.
2. Slice about 3/4 inch to an inch off the tip of the artichoke.
3. Pull off any smaller leaves towards the base and on the stem.
4. Cut excess stem, leaving up to an inch on the artichoke. The stems tend to be more bitter than the rest of the artichoke, but some people like to eat them. Alternatively you can cut off the stems and peel the outside layers which is more fibrous and bitter and cook the stems along with the artichokes.
5. Rinse the artichokes in running cold water.
6. In a large pot, put a couple inches of water, a clove of garlic, and a bay leaf (this adds wonderful flavor to the artichokes). Insert a steaming basket. Add the artichokes. Cover. Bring to a boil and reduce heat to simmer. Cook for 35 to 45 minutes or until the outer leaves can easily be pulled off. Note: artichokes can also be cooked in a pressure cooker (about 20 minutes cooking time).How to Eat an Artichoke
Artichokes may be eaten cold or hot, but I think they are much better hot. They are served with a dip, either melted butter or mayonaise. My favorite dip is mayo with a little bit of balsamic vinegar mixed in.
1. Pull off outer petals, one at a time.
2. Dip white fleshy end in melted butter or sauce. Tightly grip the other end of the petal. Place in mouth, dip side down, and pull through teeth to remove soft, pulpy, delicious portion of the petal. Discard remaining petal. Continue until all of the petals are removed.
3. With a knife or spoon, scrape out and discard the inedible fuzzy part (called the "choke") covering the artichoke heart. The remaining bottom of the artichoke is the heart. Cut into pieces and dip into sauce to eat.
~~Unknown~~
Wednesday, August 01, 2007
Star Jones Admits it: Finally!
Yes she did have that bypass surgery. Finally she admits it! I wonder what took so long. Star Jones Reynolds says in a new interview that her dramatic weight loss was due to gastric bypass surgery, and that she dodged questions about it for years because she was "scared of what people might think of me."
Reynolds, 45, says she was "intentionally evasive" when people asked how she'd dropped 160 pounds in three years. The former "View" co-host opens up about her weight loss and self-esteem issues in a first-person essay featured in the September issue of Glamour magazine, on newsstands August 7.
"Everything about me was already so public (mostly my own doing -- talk about dumb!), so of course everyone wanted to know what I had done," she writes. "I was also terrified someone would have a tragic result after emulating me without making an informed decision with her doctor."
"But the complete truth is, I was scared of what people might think of me," she continues. "I was afraid to be vulnerable, and ashamed at not being able to get myself under control without this procedure."
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Weight Loss: A Mental Thing
The project is called the National Weight Control Registry (NWCR) and was created in 1993 by researchers at Brown University and the University of Colorado in the face of the well-known and defeating statistic: Ninety-five percent of dieters gain their weight back.
Registrants -- some 4,500 -- must have dropped at least 30 pounds and kept them off for a year or more, though the average member has lost twice that much and maintained it for about five years.
In one of the latest studies, Inga Treitler, Ph.D., a cultural anthropologist, and a fellow researcher intensely interviewed and observed 10 of the registrants, focusing not on what they ate or did for exercise but on how they lived -- the books they read, the photos they kept, their pets, careers, friends and hobbies -- before and after the weight loss. The question, again, was basic: What had enabled them to triumph where so many others falter?
One of Treitler's aha moments came after the study subjects took a 120-item multiple-choice questionnaire that assesses thinking styles, called the Herrmann Brain Dominance Instrument (HBDI).
Simply put, the theory behind it goes like this: We all naturally tend to process information, solve problems and relate to others in a particular way, and such inclinations roughly correspond to four different quadrants of the brain -- two on the right, two on the left. These preferences are like mental defaults your brain automatically resorts to when evaluating the world unless otherwise prompted and most people employ some combination of quadrants.
• "A" quadrant (upper left): People who favor this area are analytical, mathematical, logical problem solvers. Drawn to statistics and the workings of machinery, they can overanalyze a situation so much they have trouble taking action.
• "B" quadrant (lower left): These people are controlled, methodical, disciplined sticklers for structure and routine. Punctual and neat, they always have a plan, timetable and calendar with appointments penciled in.
• "C" quadrant (lower right): Lower-right thinkers are emotional, spiritual and focused on people and human connection.
• "D" quadrant (upper right): "D" types are strongly visual and easily bored, attracted to new ideas, fun and risk taking.
Which quadrant makes a successful dieter?
"We found that those with the most dramatic losses scored noticeably higher in favoring 'B,' the lower left," says Treitler.
This makes sense to her, having observed many people struggling with weight. Someone inclined toward plans and routines, who sees life through methodical eyes, would be the most comfortable with the mundane details of calorie counting and portion control. She would also be more able to coolly observe herself and catalog obstacles and failings without succumbing to an emotion like self-hatred.
Breakthrough number two occurred during another study with the NWCR volunteers.
When Treitler listened to subjects' stories, something stood out. They'd all gone through an inner transformation almost like those celebrated in traditional rites of passage. Each had found a coach, mentor or guide for the journey; had pulled back and separated somewhat from his or her old environment; and then was "reborn" into a different way of life. The newly thin person became a leader rather than a follower, a change that opened the door to further goals and achievements, often in fields completely unrelated to weight loss.
One subject asked a chef at the university where he worked to develop an aggressive diet for him and dropped nearly half his body weight. Then he took a leave from his job to help start a law school in Africa and became a passionate long-distance walker and bird-watcher.
"All the subjects had incorporated some meditative element into their lives," Treitler says. "It might have been walking or yoga, but it was self time, a white space where they could disengage from the old, obsessive behavior." This transformation of identity appears crucial in keeping weight off. Without a new self who's clearly different from the old, overweight one, it's too easy to revert to former unhealthy habits.
While most of us can't remove ourselves from daily life as radically as that man who went to Africa, we can create the conditions that make rebirth possible. Based on Dr. Treitler's observations, she can suggest concrete steps to change a habit that have nothing to do with food or exercise or any other behavior you're wrestling with.
The fact is, no matter which cognitive type you are, you can "learn to shift to another mode of thinking," to "stretch" the brain quadrant boundaries in which you feel at home, says Ann Herrmann-Nehdi, CEO of Herrmann International, which developed the HBDI. So for people who have no natural inclination to be systematic and detail oriented ("B" strengths), Treitler says the goal is to build up familiarity and comfort with those approaches.
According to Herrmann-Nehdi, simple activities practiced over a period of about three weeks can bolster your inner bookkeeper. They can be done in stages, she says.
• Organize. Alphabetize your CDs. Then, a few days later, your spices. A few days after that, rearrange your closet, then your tax papers.
• Timing. Keep a time log of your daily activities and start being punctual for every appointment.
• Plan. Sit down and map out a week in advance. It's also helpful to follow a routine jogging a certain course every other day, balancing your checkbook once a week.
• Step-by-step thinking: Cook from a recipe exactly as it's written, knit from a pattern, learn a computer program by following a tutorial or manual.
If these activities seem grating, you can make them more appealing to your naturally dominant brain type, Herrmann-Nehdi says: "A 'D' [conceptual, risk taking] could dream up something she wants to achieve in a year's time, then, working backward, create a timeline and checklist of what needs to be done."
A "C"---emotional, people-oriented--- could teach her niece to balance a checkbook.
Think of these activities as physical workouts, suggests Treitler: "When you practice them regularly, it trains your brain to become accustomed to new ways of thinking." Later, when an actual diet plan requires steadfastness and attention to detail, the effort won't feel so alien.
The most important aspect of redefining yourself is "doing something empowering," says Treitler. "It may be teaching, volunteering -- anything that allows you to take on new status and to be in the position of helper rather than one who needs help." From this strengthened position, you go forward, not back.
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
50 Million Pound Challenge

Joining THE 50 MILLION POUND CHALLENGE means becoming part of something exciting, life-altering, historic, and tremendously beneficial! Not only for you, but to others in your family and community, as well as to future generations of African Americans.
Why Join?
Participating in The Challenge is not just about shedding those extra pounds — though that is critical to your health and well-being.
It’s about all of us coming together and looking out for each other as we work to take more control of our lives. It’s about taking the time to reach out and lock hands as we join forces to fight the very real risk that being overweight poses to ourselves, our families, and our community.
The Crisis
The number one health crisis facing not only African Americans, but all Americans, is being overweight. Two out of every three adults (66%) today are considered to be overweight, or even worse, obese. Even more troubling, 17% of all children in the U.S. are now overweight. The statistics for African Americans are even more alarming—where almost 80% of adult women and 67% of adult men are overweight. Equally worrisome is that 20% of African-American teenagers between the ages 12-19 are overweight, and this number appears to be rising.
Our teenagers are developing Type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, and in some cases, early signs of heart disease. This decline in our youths’ health can be attributed to poor diet, lack of exercise, and inadequate medical guidance.
Full details hereYou can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Acai Berries

I have just heard about the acai berries and had a chance to try some in ice cream form. It was good. I just did not realize all the benefits. Nor did I know very much about the berrry in general. Here is what I now know.
Acai is a Brazilian berry original from the Amazon Region that is considered to be one of nature's most complete and healthy foods. They are loaded with antioxidants, anthocyanins (approximately 20 times the amount in red wine), amino acids, essential omegas, fibers and protein. Some recent studies from the University of Florida indicate that Acai may even fight cancer cells.
Research has shown that it works as an anti-inflammatory, anti-bacterial, contains loads of anti-oxidants, and helps counter the affects of aging. The best thing about this fruit is the taste though. Some describe it as a combination of chocolate and raspberries but even that description fall short of the mark. The acai berrys taste is even more exotic, mysterious, and addictive.
| 39 Reasons to Drink Acai Juice Every Day |
| GOOD FOR THE BODY |
| |
| 1. Helps build a strong body by providing protein |
| 2. Cleanses and detoxifies the body |
| 3. May improve muscle contractions and regeneration |
| 4. Increases energy and stamina by supplying high amounts of B vitamins (Anti-stress / water soluble vitamins) needed everyday for greater iron, manganese, potassium, chromium and vanadium absorption |
| 5. Relieves stress |
| 6. Improves sexual health |
| 7. Aids body synergy |
| 8. Serves as a potent anti-aging food |
| FOR MEN |
| 9. May help prevent prostrate enlargement |
| FOR WOMEN |
| 10. Helps prevent osteoporosis |
| 11. Can reduce pain and inflammation during menstrual cycles |
| HEART HEALTH & DIABETES |
| 12. May help prevent causes of heart disease |
| 13. Reduces bad cholesterol |
| 14. Provides sterols which may lower blood pressure (BP) |
| 15. Protects blood vessels |
| 16. May help prevent diabetic related retinopathy and blindness by helping to protect against weak capillaries |
| 17. Offers diabetes relief through its low glycemic index improving glucose and lipid levels |
| 18. Curbs appetites through its low glycemic index helping with weight control |
| GALVANIXES THE IMMUNE SYSTEM |
| 19. Improves resistance to disease |
| 20. Improves function of immune cells |
| 21. Prevents free-radical damage to the immune system |
| 22. Is antiviral, antibacterial and antifungal |
| 23. Acts as an antimutagenic by helping to prevent DNA damage and lowering the risks associated with carcinogens and mutagens |
| AID FOR THE DIGESTIVE SYSTEM |
| 24. Improves digestion |
| 25. May help overcome acid-reflux disease (GERD) through it’s ability to suppress acid, reduce acidosis and reflux, protect and repair against lower esophagus damage |
| 26. Heals ulcers |
| 27. Helps relieve symptoms of Crohn's disease |
| SKIN CARE |
| 28. Improves skin tone |
| 29. Defends against premature wrinkles |
| DESEASE FIGHTER |
| 31. May thwart cancer by neutralizing free radicals before they can damage cells |
| 32. Reduces arthritis pain through anti-inflammatory properties |
| 33. Relieves symptoms of asthma |
| 34. May reduce risk for Alzheimer's disease by naturally providing increased amounts of vitamins C and E (Archives of Neurology in 2004 and a study published in the April 24, 1997, issue of The New England Journal of Medicine, vitamin E can slow the advancement of Alzheimer’s disease by 25%) |
| OTHER HEALTH ADVANTAGES OF ACAI |
| 35. Aids vision by providing high amounts of beta-carotene and vitamin C |
| 36. Helps maintain healthy teeth and gums through its highly absorbable supply of calcium |
| 37. Improves mental clarity associated with intakes of omega3, 6, 9 found in acai |
| 38. Helps induce better sleep by supplying high amounts of B vitamins (anti-stress vitamins) needed everyday as they are not produced In the body. |
| 39. Promotes overall wellness by providing the highest source of antioxidants available |
The good thing about it is that you do not have to go all the way to the Amazon to get it. You can order it and enjoy it in the states. I plan to get some.
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Thursday, June 21, 2007
Cherries
Cherries also are low in calories, low in fat and contain a high percentage of water. Research has shown increasing water consumption will boost energy levels and help increase the motabalism. I need that as mine has slowed way down. I am trying all I can to jumpstart it so that I can burn calories faster. They are also high in potassium and low in sodium which improves water balance overall. When you feel like chocolate and I had a real craving today for it, reach for the cherries instead. They are far better for you!
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
Help Me, I'm Shrinking!
I fear for my bum right knee.. college injury. Torn kneecap with surgery. It is a lot of pressure to step sometimes. Not all the time..just some. I am determined to throw away those big sizes I have. When I look in the mirrow now, I only see what I want to change. It seems like I can;t get in enough excersize in a day to get some poundage off. I want it off now..quick, but I know it took time to get this size and it will take time to get it off. I guess I am just impatient. Well, off to walk again today. I will get in two miles today.
You can chase a butterfly all over the field and never catch it. But if you sit quietly in the grass it will come and sit on your shoulder.
~~Unknown~~
